How to Be Irresistible to Men by Amy Waterman
The story of “How to Be Irresistible to Men” starts long before me. It’s been going strong for nearly a decade, originally fronted by the beloved Sarah Paul. I arrived in 2005 and was overjoyed to be assigned the task of updating the book to meet the needs of modern women.
Did You Know?
Did you know that the rather confusing name of the website, 000Relationships.com, was chosen because, back then, names starting with the number zero appeared first on the list of search results? The young entrepreneurs who set up the site also giggled at the double entendre behind the website’s nickname “Triple O”.
Updated for the Modern Woman
The first edition of “How to Be Irresistible to Men” was originally a series of articles written by Sarah Paul about attracting men and collated into a book.
When I started working for the 000Relationships Network in 2005, Sarah was on her way out. She’d met her Mr. Right, and she was planning to leave to start a family.
Under her tutelage, I updated her book to incorporate some of the new research coming out about the nature of sexual attraction, and our amazing graphic designer created a new look and feel designed to appeal to a more discerning reader.
More Than Just an E-Book
In 2006, I was asked to revisit “How to Be Irresistible to Men” one final time — this time, from the perspective of transforming into a multimedia course. The original book would still be included as a bonus in the package, but the course itself would become a series of videos hosted by me and starring several dating experts.
At that time, I was lucky enough to have hosted a seminar on “Advanced Dating Techniques,” featuring, among others, a local counselor and a life coach. Their teachings changed my perception of what it took to attract the opposite sex forever.
A Life-Changing Seminar
Before that seminar, I’d thought much like Sarah Paul. Don’t give away too much, play hard to get, be a tease, and don’t be needy.
After the seminar, however, I realized that attraction occurs at a much deeper level. The reason we are attracted to the people we are attracted to is because we recognize something we yearn for in them. As Dr. Harville Hendrix teaches, every person we fall deeply in love with us has the potential to “save” us.
So we fall in love, hoping that all our dreams will come true … and, of course, we’re disappointed. Even the most amazing person in the entire world is still human. They make mistakes, aren’t always there for us when we need them, and hurt us right when we need them most.
It’s what we decide to do next that defines our character. Do we keep searching in the hope that we’ll find someone who doesn’t disappoint us? Or do we stick with it and work things through, in the belief that every conflict is simply an opportunity for growth.
Clearly, I was getting into some really deep stuff!
Seeing Attraction in a New Light
My thinking began to change. All these tricks about playing hard to get and so forth were just the surface of a much bigger issue. Some people were just naturally lovable and irresistible, while others were impossible to like no matter how hard you tried.
So my goal, with the multimedia edition of “How to Be Irresistible to Men,” was to tackle the root of the issue of attraction…
What does it mean to be a person that everyone wants to be with? What does it truly mean to be irresistible?
Irresistibility is not the same as sexiness. If someone’s irresistible, it means that everyone wants to be around them. They light up a room. Just being in their presence makes you feel alive and glow. You love being with them, and you seek reasons to spend time in their company because they just make you feel so darn good.
Do you know any people like that?
People who have that gift are rarely alone. They meet the most amazing mates and attract them without having to do a thing. They don’t even have to be terribly physically attractive! Their charisma makes up for any physical shortcomings.
After months and months of research, discussion, and writing, I discovered what I believe is the secret to irresistibility.
It doesn’t have to do with what you look like or even what you wear. It has to do with your attitude. It has to do with how you think.
And, lucky for us, we can change how we think more easily than we can change what we look like!
Discover the Secret to Irresistibility
If you want to know the secret to irresistibility, then I suggest you sign up for my free 6-Part MiniCourse. It’s available on the 000Relationships website.
It will teach you some absolutely amazing tips that you can put to work in your life right now. You will learn the 3 stages to seduction, attraction killers, and my top 10 tips for becoming a new you!
Plus, you’ll also get a free subscription to my newsletter series, which contains valuable tips and strategies that you won’t find anywhere else.
As a dating and relationships expert, my philosophy is simple.
- I want women to know the scientific facts about dating and attraction rather than an opinion that’s biased by my own experience.
- I want them to attract the right man for them rather than a plethora of unsuitable men who just want sex.
- And, I want them to be true to their heart and true to themselves, rather than compromising their principles for an engagement ring.
Does that sound good to you?
If so, check out “How to Be Irresistible to Men” today and sign up for my unforgettable 6-Part MiniCourse. It could just change your life!