Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series
The biggest reason that people don't succeed in their goals is giving up.
How many people do you know who've actually kept their New Year's Resolutions? Almost no one, right?
To achieve a goal, you've got to keep at it.
You've got to keep learning and keep practicing and keep thinking about what you're doing until you've reached your goal.
That's why Meet Your Sweet developed its Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series, a 12-month program (separate editions for men and women) that takes readers through every step of dating, seduction, and establishing a committed relationship.
The course promises to transform its members from loveless to lovestruck to loveworthy to loving it!
The Principle Behind a Year-Long Course
If you're someone who buys a book or course with the hope of getting this part of your life sorted out ... and then skims through the book or half-heartedly does a few of the exercises ... and then complains, "Nothing ever works for me," then this course is for you.
Lifelong change can't happen in the few hours it takes to read a book.
Nor can lifelong change be effected by doing a few exercises and then forgetting all about it.
To truly change your life, you need to keep at it.
You need to keep your goal in the forefront of your mind, rather than giving up when things become "too difficult."
You need to learn the basic concepts, and then the nuances, and then the exceptions to the rule, and so forth.
You need to practice the skills you're learning and develop new skills once you've mastered the old ones.
In other words, true change takes commitment over a period of time.
With that in mind, let me ask you:
Do you have a year to commit to a course that will lead you hand-in-hand from the initial stages of dating all the way through developing healthy relationships?
Or would you rather buy a book you can pretend to read before you throw it away, complaining that nothing can fix your love life?
Did You Know?
Did you know that the Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series (say THAT 10 times in a row) was originally called something else? When the idea was first bounced around, the series was envisioned as a monthly magazine called "Meet Your Sweet Monthly."
My Role in the Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series
The team at Meet Your Sweet decided that they needed to enlist the help of every expert they could get, in order to create a course that thoroughly covered every nuance of dating and relationships. So they contacted me, Andrew Rusbatch, Mirabelle Summers, Slade Shaw, James Bradley, and others.
I was asked to contribute a monthly column for each issue, as well as write a special "sealed section" containing saucy secrets to spicing up our readers' love lives.
That was easy enough. I love to write and talk about my experience and research. But my job wasn't over yet.
I was also asked to interview a series of guest experts for each issue.
Now, doing interviews is normally one of my favorite parts of my job. I get to talk to dating and relationship experts from around the world and ask them the questions that me and thousands of women around the world are dying to know.
But I didn't quite realize what I was in for.
I had 48 interviews to arrange, and I had no clue who to ask.
My Interviewing Challenge
Finding people to interview is not as easy as you might think. You’d think that all I would have to find some names, call the people up, ask them for an interview, and voila! Instant success.
But scoring that perfect interview is a lot like finding the perfect boyfriend. There are a LOT of hurdles along the way. For example…
- Finding the right person.
Sure, there are a lot of self-proclaimed “dating and relationship experts” online, but how many of them do you really want to sit through a half-hour of conversation with? A lot of dating experts feel comfortable with writing but don’t feel comfortable being interviewed. Other dating experts just repeat the same old things, which doesn’t make them a very interesting interview subject. We wanted to feature experts who were unique, had an in-depth knowledge of their topic, and could come up with compelling things to say off the top of their heads. As you can imagine, there weren’t very many who qualified! - Rejection.
Yes, I got turned down a LOT when it came to my requests for an interview. I only received about one response for every five emails I send out. Again, it’s a lot like dating. You’ve got to develop a thick skin and shrug rejection off. As I always tell myself, if they’re not interested in doing an interview for us, they wouldn’t have made a very interesting interview subject anyway! - Technology.
This was one of the most frustrating parts of the whole job. After all that struggle finding the right person, getting them to accept, deciding on a topic, and scheduling the interview, we could still find ourselves arriving on the day and discovering that the computer was on the blink or the phone connection was faulty. We used to do all our interviews over Skype, but the connection would constantly fuzz out. International phone connections are notorious for delays and static, but, being based in New Zealand, we didn’t have much choice!
A Herculean Task
It took me nearly a year to finish what I'd set out to do.
By the end, I'd recorded 24 hours worth of audio programs, written 450 pages worth of articles and advice, and edited around 500 pages of transcripts!
I was tired!
But in the process I'd met tons of amazing people whom I'd known by name but hadn't spoken to before - people like Paige Parker, Cucan Pemo, Carlos Xuma, and Zan Perrion - and I was able to ask them questions that I knew our readers were dying to know.
So if you are interested in hearing what the top dating and relationship experts online have to say about attracting and keeping the mate of your dreams - or if you just want to check out my dating and sex advice - check out the Ultimate Attraction Transformation Series for yourself.
